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Babies in Spain are F-A-A-A-A-N-C-Y. Girls wear pearls from day one. Boys are dressed in dresses, bows, flowers and ruffles until they’re thirty years old months old. Clothing is fancy. Strollers are fancy. Crib bedding is fancy. They even wear baby perfume on a daily basis. My baby is half-American (thanks to my XX chromosomes) and she therefore can wear hand-me-down sweats from her American cousin half of the time. And she does. My baby, however, is also half-Spanish (thanks to her father’s XY chromosomes) and she therefore must be fancy at least half of the time (especially when we will be seeing her Spanish grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins or friends with babies around the neighborhood).
Yesterday she attended the 1st-birthday party of her boyfriend, in her fancy birthday party dress (this dress cost as much as an Alexander Wang T tee-shirt, or an entire adult woman outfit from Zara…good thing it was a gift!). In Spain, (maybe in America, too?) groups of siblings wear the same clothing, or at least clothing from the same line. This may make things easy on the parents (go to one store, buy the same outfit in 3 –enter number of children from same family– sizes), but does it affect the individuality of each child?
If you have kids, how do you dress them? How do you shop for them? Do you think their early fashion has any affect on them later? If you have half-nationality children like me, do you feel obligated to dress them per country-of-residence standards?


Anna, so amused by what you have written on the concepts of total FANCINESS, and dressing alike! THE first thing I noticed arriving to Puerto eight yers ago was al the LATIN Americanos, whole families dressd alike, and sets of TWINS…..My Argentine daughter
carefully explained to me all of these afectations! It’s the perfume on the adults that kills me, always SO MUCH.
Lucia was raised in the South of Argentina, spending as little time as possible in Buenos Aires until school age. As our boys there do not grow up to kill bulls, but play polo, the little boys wear JEANS, and the little girls wear whatever floats the boat of appointed family.
My kid lived in OshKosh by Gosh and Wellies. We lived in the countryside in San Carlos de Bariloche. That is what life should be for a child. Her first trials at standing were on the edge of the Nauel Haupi lake in our front yard! This makes real pioneer women like you and me as well as the rest of many women in Californi A.
xoxo Geraldine Puerto de Santa Maria
Thank you so much for your feedback, Geraldine! (And thanks for the call!!). I LOVE Osh Kosh by Gosh (especially the little striped train overalls) AND Wellies. It sounds like Lucia had an amazing childhood in an enchanting place, lucky her! I’m looking forward to having you join us for a “ladies lunch” sometime really soon! Take care of that leg!!! xx
I tried to have you wear fancy dresses but you weren’t having any of it. You wanted to wear what your brother was wearing, preferably his old sweats!
Love, Mom